Sometimes I'm asked about ideas for rules in a femdom or FLR relationship. Which rules are right for you depends on those involved and your specific dynamic. However, I do have some possible suggestions that may work for you. This isn't meant to be a list of rules that you should use, rather it's a list of rules you may be interested in using. As you read through them, choose only those that make sense to you and your situation.
Sexual Rules:
- No porn without permission.
- No touching your genitals without permission except to clean.
- No coming without permisson.
- Keep the bedroom / bathroom door open when you're in there without me.
- Keep your genitals shaved smooth / trimmed.
- I always come first.
- If you have more clothes on than me, take off clothes until you don't.
- No wearing male clothes in the house.
- Only wear female undergarments when leaving the house.
- Never leave the house without your chastity cage on.
- Never refer to your genitals as your own. Instead of "my balls" they're "your balls," etc.
- Always wear your collar and/or cuffs when home (unless we have visitors).
- Always use my title when we're alone / you have your collar and/or cuffs on.
- When cleaning toys that have been inside me, start with your mouth.
- Always say "thank you" after being corrected or after receiving a punishment.
- Before being allowed to come, your sub must first give you good reason he shouldn't, to help you make a more balanced decision.
Pet Peeve Rules:
- Don't be late or make me late.
- Don't say you're going to do something and then not do it.
- Be respectful at all times while talking to me. This means no raising your voice, interrupting, or talking over me.
- Answer me promptly when I ask you a question.
- Don't leave the lid or seat of the toilet up.
- Always replace an empty toilet paper roll.
- Always wash your hands after using the bathroom.
- Don't squeeze the toothpaste from the middle of the tube.
- Don't leave the cap off the toothpaste.
- Don't leave hair on or in the sink.
- Don't get water outside of the shower.
- Don't bite your nails.
- Cover your mouth when you cough.
- Don't chew with your mouth open.
- Pick up any trash not in the trash bin.
- Turn off the lights when you are the last one to leave a room.
- Put your dishes in the sink immediately when you get up from the table.
- Don't leave dirty laundry on the floor.
- Don't leave cabinet doors open.
- Don't leave less than a half cup of juice / milk in the container.
- If you use the last of something, add it to the shopping list.
- Lock the front door / car when you come home / after everyone is home / before going to bed.
- Be in bed by X o'clock.
- Don't leave clothes on the floor.
- Don't say literally when you don't mean literally. (Or "On accident" vs "by accident".)
