Friday, May 13, 2011

Forced Cum Eating

Someone asked for help getting her sub to eat his own cum. For anyone who hasn't tried this, it's actually harder than it sounds. For anyone who has tried but failed, it's much easier with the right approach. But before I get into the how, I want to give a small warning. The whole point of forcing someone to swallow their own cum is making them do something degrading and humiliating that they wouldn't normally do. One thing I find disappointing is learning that a sub, on his own, will eat his own cum. If someone already swallows their own cum after they orgasm, it takes the fun out of making them do it. Firstly, they aren't doing it for you. If they do it of their own accord, they are doing it for themselves. Secondly, the sub gets use to it. It's no longer humiliating or degrading for them. It becomes common and normal. Boring.

Sometimes the top will make a sub eat his own load every time. Like I said before, it desensitizes them to it. But some tops find it sexy to break someone. There is a sense of accomplishment and pride, not to mention power, in really changing someone. I can understand this angle, especially if the sub is the type of person who gags at even a taste of their own man seed; an attitude adjustment is in order. I've also heard it argued as a way to save time cleaning up. In the case of sucking someone else off, I agree, it is cleaner. But I'm calling shenanigans in the case of a sub licking up his own load. This is some guy's justification for a fantasy he can't otherwise rationalize. A tongue is far from sanitary; more cleaning is still necessary. The only way it saves time in cleanup is if he's swallowing his load, with his mouth directly on his cock. Now, while not an option for most men, I'll admit this is appealing to me, especially since time saved on clean up is more time for something else. Also, consider the frequency you make your sub eat his own semen, as you might unintentionally numb him to the act. Personally, I like to save it as a "treat."

There are many approaches to getting your pet to eat his own cum. Some will work better than others depending on your sub. You can go with whatever you think will work best with your sub, or whatever sounds like the most fun to you. Of course I'm not recommending you break any of your sub's limits (unless you know he'll be ok with it), but forcing a sub to fulfill his fantasy is both fun and sexy. If you are doubting yourself and want more justification, then see the second half of my post on following through.

The most common approach is by command. Make the sub come on his or your hand, or if you're feeling generous, your breasts, legs, feet, or whatever. Then order him to lick it clean. This is the first thing that comes to mind for most tops, but is also the hardest to make someone follow through with. This approach can work, but only if you are very strict. Think of the voice you use when telling your dog to stop poking at the trash can, or when you're telling your cat to get off the dinner table. Speak sternly, imply urgency, and raise your voice. Since this is one of the hardest approaches, it can also take several tries. If you notice your toy hesitating or otherwise struggling with the command, I suggest giving him an out. Tell him what his punishment will be if he doesn't obey. Pick a punishment he won't like, and up that punishment with each attempt. For example, if your sub isn't usually denied orgasms for a week then tell them if they don't follow through you will deny them orgasm for a week. If they choose this option then try again in a week, but next time threaten two weeks punishment. While I imagine this will eventually work with anyone, it might be hard to find the right punishment. Don't start out with the worst punishment you can imagine though, build up to larger and more serious punishments. Someone refusing to eat their own cum at the cost of no orgasms for a year, might actually be willing to do so at the threat of not coming for a month after suffering through two weeks of no orgasms. If this is the approach you want to use, but it's not working, try not to get frustrated. Some subs just have a hard time with this. Instead, think of it as a game to see how much your sub will suffer through before giving in.

This second approach requires a little more preparation. This is generally the approach that comes to a sub's mind when they fantasize about being forced to swallow their own load. The key to this approach is lack of options on your sub's behalf. Put him in a position where he can't say no. My favorite way to do this is the legs over the head trick. Have him lay on his back and lift his legs back over his head until his cock lines right up with his mouth. What helps is having him lay such that when his feet go over his head they land on a wall behind him, then have him walk down the wall to narrow the gap between his mouth and cock. You may have to move your man around a bit and start over to get him lined up properly. When he's lined up make him come into his own mouth. This might actually take a couple tries before you get a good amount in there. Hold him in that awkward position by the balls, make sure you have a good grip so he knows he can't just lay back down. Another option is to position yourself behind him so he can't unfold. Tell him he has to swallow it, if he hesitates hold his nose with a free hand. He'll have to swallow to breath. This is more commonly accomplished (and fantasized about) with bondage. Make sure he's secure and can't move, then make him come into a shot glass. A small cup like a shot glass is essential, or too much of it will get stuck on the sides. Tell him to drink it, again if he refuses hold his nose and pour it into his mouth. Let him breath but repeat the process to get him to swallow if necessary. There are alternatives to holding his nose if you think that might make him panic or choke, or if it just isn't your style. One alternative is a little abuse to the balls. Even people who enjoy CBT will find it hard to take a couple hard swats to the balls after orgasm. Another is, if you have e-stim toys, use them to make him come, but after orgasm keep turning up the power until he obeys. There are a lot of options really, any sort of pain should do the trick. When using pain I always suggest it be something erotic in nature to make thinking about it afterwards a more positive experience for the sub.

This third approach is down right insidious and underhanded. I think it's great. The tricky part in getting a man to swallow his own cum isn't getting him to admit he wants it, or talking him into it -- that's easy, just get him horny enough. The tricky part is getting him to follow through once there is a load for him to swallow. If only you could get his load into his mouth before he comes. Well, you can. All you'll need is an ice cube tray. If you already make your own ice then get one that looks different than the others. When your sub comes, make him come into one of the ice cube slots. Although one load is probably enough, I suggest getting two to four loads in one slot to make a larger cube. When you decide it's time for your man to eat his own load, get him good and horny, maybe even bring him to the edge a couple times, then break out the ice cube. You'll easily be able to get him to suck on the cube when he's all worked up. And like that, he's happily swallowing his own semen. Make him finish the whole cube before being allowed to come. It's too easy. If you want him to have the real experience, if you want to do something he would fantasize about were he clever enough, start by tying him down. Tease him until he is willing to suck on the cum cube. After he takes the cube into his mouth, make sure he can't spit it out. Gag him with a ball gag or wrap bondage tape around his face and mouth. Do not untie him or ungag him until you're sure he's swallowed everything, but do not draw things out. Make him come immediately, before he can consume much, if any, of the cube. Make him watch as you catch his load with the ice cube tray to help him realize exactly what he's about to do... swallow his own load after coming.

16 comments:

  1. Sounds like the exwife and you are on the same plane of Femdom and you're both a little dangerous

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  2. My ex-wife trained me like that

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  3. The last idea is pure genius. I can't eat my own cum even under threat of punishment or pain. Although I can easily see allowing a large cum cube in my mouth, having it taped in, and then eyes pleading and mumbling behind the gag to not let me cum and experience the post orgasm let down. A quick orgasm and I would be in the place I would never allow myself to get into if not for the teasing and denial.

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  4. As my M said, after any orgasm you must eat your cum. Dont what to eat mean - dont what to have orgasm. She used a cbt for a long time and a whip. Now i drink all of it.

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  5. My Mistress not only made me eat my own cum but the cum of her boyfriend as well ... all through tease and denial. She would have a shot glass of cum waiting for me when i arrived

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  6. I love the idea of my mistress preparing my palate first with a nice load of that white gravy for me to savor, taste and swallow -Yes, I now just love a cum cocktail-no force needed now-creampie is my next treat.

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  7. Making a man eat his own cum when he cums before satisfying his mistress is the standard punishment for such selfish actions. It is administered by straddling his face and putting your cum-filled pussy into his opened mouth and telling him to lick it out and eat it. It's not a request, but an order.

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  8. Thank you very much for taking the time to write this. As we both know eating cum is a necessary part of the feminizing process for a new sissy. I tried the ice cube. Wow. I had my sissy masturbate until she was just about to squirt. I then got a small pill case and grabbed her clit and finished her off. She was thrilled. I shot her milk into the case and closed it. She looked surprised. I told her it was for later. The rest of the day I teased her. I would come up behind her and caress her ass, reach around and fondle her clit and kept her excited. She was very horney and begging for another release. I told her I understood but she would have to eat what she produced. She frowned and said she wanted too but just couldnt. So I had her lie on the bed and tied her to the bedframe. I tied a cord around her balls and through the headboard so that her legs were pulled up, then tied it off. She had to keep her legs up and if she didnt it pulled on her balls. Very interesting predicament for her. As she began to get tired, I told her I would relieve her situation but she would have to eat the cum ice cube. She wasnt persuaded. So I began to stroke her clit, bringing her close but backing off. I then slid in a dildo and left it in her. She was beyond turned on. I got the icecube and told her to open up that she would make me very proud of her if she did this and that all sissies ate cum. She opened her mouth and I popped the cube in and put duct tape over her mouth. Her eyes opened wide as if to plead for me not to do that. I then went back to masturbating her and told her, enjoy!

    As it melted I asked her if she was enjoying her own cum? She knodded yes! I asked if it was almost melted and if she was swallowing? She shook her head yes. I asked if she wanted to cum and she shook her head yes. I told her I would pour her cum in her mouth when finished. She shook her head yes. I stroked her clit and she squited in a glass. When I finished milking her I took the tape off and poured it in. She swallowed it all!

    I untied her and told her how proud I was of her. She looked embarrassed. I used this time to further tear down her silly male ego. I told her she was now a cum drinker and the next step was to become a cocksucker! She smiled and said she wanted to do that. I asked if she enjoied her cum? She said it wasnt as bad as she thought. Having it melt wasnt so bad. But her warm cum almost made her gag. I told her it can be an acquired taste but she had better get used to it bc from now on she will consume all her cum. She said she would.

    So! Clearly, you know what you are talking about. Another success story!

    Thank you very much for your help.

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    1. I think you have the training sequence in order. My Mistress had me learn to drink my own cum. When I was younger, my cock came within an inch or two from my mouth. Sometimes I could even lick the end of my own cock. I came directly into my own mouth. We did this at least six to eight times. Next, came a real cock. After that, she would have me over every Saturday for a few hours. My job was to suck the cum out of every sub my Mistress and the other Mistresses wanted me to suck. The usual Saturday was at least three cocks and all their cum. My record was six cocks in one day.

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  9. I never liked the idea of my boy not enjoying something and that made this hard for me. The cum cube is gross but was the only solution I've seen that allows my boy to enjoy it so I finally gave in. It took some insistence but he was noticeably more excited when he finally agreed to take it into his mouth. I knew he was enjoying his cum but to make him think I was being mean I cuffed his hands behind his back and put his gag on and told him it was so he couldn't spit it out. I was touching him lightly but he came really fast without warning. Fucking gags, that's not what I wanted. I was frustrated so I told him I did it on purpose so he'd know what it was like and just cuddled with him as he whimpered and wiggled. It always seems to be on his mind now and he hasn't stopped telling me how great I am. I don't understand how he can be so happy about something I know he didn't enjoy. I'll never understand subs.

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  10. A variation on the ice cube trick is to simply keep a load of his cum in a small dish and put it in the refrigerator until you're ready for it. When the time comes, let the dish set out until it is room temperature. Then edge him as described, and when you have him where you want him, make him eat the warm cum when he's ultra horny and desperate. He will do it and not think twice about it. When anything, including sperm, is frozen or cold, it is not at full flavor. (Think about martinis...the colder they are, the less you taste them.) Make him learn to eat warm cum (it's natural state), and you'll truly be training him to slurp it down obediently when it's fresh from his cock. I can tell you from experience that this works. I no longer care if he cums before I do, because I can simply jump up to his face and sit on his mouth while he licks me to one orgasm after another. His cum drains into his mouth, and he is so accustomed to the flavor that he doesn't hesitate or even make a face. This was my entire reason for training him in the first place. If you have a man who will let you sit on his face after he has cum, you are the proud owner of a very well-trained pet. I bragged about this once to a friend of mine, and she was so JEALOUS! Hee hee...wheee!

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    1. I've been in a relationship now for about a year with a girl who is extremely tight and doesn't get off easily. In the past I was able to bring others off multiple times before I came. With her it is very challenging to not cum. After a few times of me being 'lazy' and finishing before her, she had a very open conversation about our sex and orgasms - both hers and mine. I was warned / told in a very factual manner that our sex life would consist of both of us having orgasms. She said she really enjoyed getting fucked by me, however it was clearly not the only way she could cum as she also really enjoyed being brought off by my mouth. I was told that it was OK if I cum first, but when this happens she would be climbing on my face until she was brought to orgasm. I told her that I understood and we cuddled the rest of the night. Since then we fucked a few times and I made sure to bring her off with my cock before I finished as this was obviously important to her. Recently while fucking, I came before she did. I could tell she was a little disappointed, but she reassured me that its OK, and then told me it was her turn to cum. As I lay there in post orgasm bliss she calmly got up and came at me as to sit on my face, but I started to push her away. She told me that we talked about this and agreed, and that it was not fair for only one of us to cum. I was frustrated, but I let her mount my face to bring her off. As she did this, much of my cum that I had just pumped into her slid back out onto my upper lip, mouth, and chin. I began to gag and she paused and she gently told me take it easy, relax, and just keep licking her clit, keep going, keep going… As she did this, she was gently grinding her clit and pussy over my mouth and tongue as she usually did with oral. Needless to say, my mouth was now covered in my own load that continued leak and be forced out of her as she began to have her slight contractions while she came. She rolled off of me telling me how good that was and commented that it looks like I got a 'little extra.' I got up to go wash my face and rinse my mouth. My frustration was obvious. I came back to bed and we talked. I told her that I was really not into eating or tasting my own cum and that I didn't like that at all. She said that she could understand that, but explained that this had nothing to do with me cumming, or my actual cum. This was about her getting to orgasm just like I did. She also made recommendations about what I might do next time I felt like finishing before her. She also reminded me that she has swallowed numerous loads of my cum and that while its not her favorite either, she did it because it gets me off.

      I had tasted my own cum years ago out of curiosity. It was gross and that was an tiny amount on my finger. I have never had my entire load dumped on my mouth. In the future I will be working much harder to bring her off before me with my cock. Truthfully, I am concerned that, like others have indicated on this post, one of these times I will probably not care as I'm right there on the edge of orgasm as I fuck her and will finish before. Anyways thats my experience with eating my own cum. I didn't realize how much there was on this topic.

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  11. My Mistress has a different take on cum eating. Since she knows I have a Hair fetish she makes me cum all over her Hair then lick it clean. If i do a good job I'm allowed to wash and style her Hair. If i disappoint her I'm punished in any way she desires.

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  12. Forcing people to do things they don't want to do by putting them in a different state of consciousness sounds illegal, are any of you worried about getting arrested or sued? I feel like that would be a big concern.

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  13. My Mistress hasn't yet let me eat mine, saying She doesn't want to make me do something She wouldn't do. i've had it before, on my own, before She was in control. i want it soo bad now,but don't know how to get Her to order it. Any suggestions?

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  14. I've eaten my own cum since the age of fourteen. In my youth I really didn't like other guys cum, but nowadays I've learned to enjoy it, especially if it's fresh - ideally straight from the source. Yummy!

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