A Lazy Domme's Guide

Ruined orgasms are another one of those ironic and self contradicting kinks. People with this fetish enjoy not-enjoying their orgasm. Usuall...

Through conditioning and training some women claim they can orgasm on command. This to me seems entirely impossible. I'm not going to ou...

Sometimes it seems a sub doesn't enjoy something he clearly said he wanted or likes. Maybe he will put up a struggle, or otherwise resis...

I am always fascinated to see how long standing couples use safewords, also sometimes written as "safe word". A safeword is a code...

Cock and ball bondage is often associated with cock and ball torture, but it's actually useful outside of CBT play as well. Simply put, ...

With predicament bondage the sub is not simply bound helpless, he is bound in such a way that he can only move between a limited number of, ...

In the BDSM world, and even more so in Femdom, there is often emphasis put on protocol. While sometimes a top will find such things enjoyabl...