Quick But Kinky

I want to talk about quick but kinky orgasms. One of the few downsides to restricting your sub's orgasms is they become very invested in that orgasm, and missing it because you ran out of time is a sad and disappointing event. However, there's no reason you can't give a short but kinky orgasm. You might think your sub will feel cheated, but as long as your sub has been worked up sexually while being denied - I suggest a masturbation schedule - then a short but kinky orgasm will still be much enjoyed and much appreciated.

The caveat here is that this isn't necessarily true for a sub who's been denied orgasm much much longer than they are use to. When working out what is roughly an agreement with my sub about orgasm denial, I always say I reserve the right to delay an orgasm due to punishment. This means one alternative is to find an excuse to punish your sub and deny him orgasm for another day. In fact, this is always a way out, but it goes from fun to frustrating quite quickly for your sub. If there's nothing special about his period of denial, go with a quick orgasm. There are plenty of fast and easy things you can mix into a quick orgasm to make it more kinky. Just make sure you mix it up; don't use the same combination of things each time.

One fun thing you can do is to take off your panties or socks and use them as a gag for your sub. If it's a sock I suggest you turn it inside out so they are tasting your feet and not the floor. You can do the same with your panties but some choose not to flip them inside out to be "kind" to their sub. In reality a truly horny sub will tend to find these "gross" things even more sexy. Nonetheless, if you feel self-conscious putting your used panties into your pet's mouth, you can plan ahead a little and sneak off into the bathroom to put on a fresh pair before you play. You can do the same thing with your socks if it bothers you.

This is the sister idea to the previous one. Sit on his face. You can angle how you sit so your ass or your pussy is over his face. You can silence him with pressure or make him lick you. You could also lay with your feet on his face and make him kiss or lick them. Again some people will be self-conscious about this, and I wish I could help you get over it, because a sub will enjoy it. Even if he doesn't, feeling that he has to tolerate it in order to get an orgasm will turn him on even more. Either way you win when it comes to kink.

You can bind him to a bed or a chair. You could spend a lot of time doing this carefully, but there's no need to spend much time on it. I suggest using handcuffs and ankle cuffs. They are very fast. If you have a chair you want to bind him to, cuff his hands behind the back position his feet to the side of the side chair, and make the ankle cuffs go around the back. If it's one of those chairs with one central support then wrap the ankle cuffs around the center once. Bound to a chair your pet will sometimes be able to close his legs, when this is the case I find simple instruction works good enough. "If you close your legs you will not be allowed to come today." If you have a four poster bed you can use two ankle cuffs and two handcuffs to secure him quite quickly. If your bed has four feet you can emulate the four poster bed with four additional ankle cuffs. Attach an ankle cuff to each foot of the bed and then attach the other end of the ankle cuff to the hand cuff or ankle cuff you will use on your sub. There are also many quick bed bondage solutions you can buy along with some do-it yourself solutions.

Cock and ball bondage! Again, it's possible to spend a lot of time on this, but you can also do it quite quickly with the help of rubber bands. You can put one around his cock and balls, double it or triple it back over depending on how much room there is. You can put one around the balls themselves. Just stretch them from one area to another anyway you want. You can literally have a tight secure package in less than 30 seconds. Shoe laces or a heavier rope can also be quickly tied around a cock and balls, but it takes a little more practice to be fast with those. I say the rubber bands are fine. You can even get a big bag of them for a dollar at the dollar store.

If your sub has more time than you, this opens up a whole other area of options. These fall in the category of "prepare yourself for me." You might find this situation is a more common occurrence, as the sub has more motivation to make time. Don't feel bad about this, take advantage of it and have your sub do some of the work for you. It doesn't take much to turn self-play into shared-play. One key thing here is in how you tell him to do things. Make sure you phrase things as a command, and never start your sentences with things like "why don't you" or "if you'd like." Use the words "for me" whenever you can and make sure your pet knows he is doing these things for you, not for himself.

There are lots of things you can have your pet do. You can tell him to tie up his cock and balls. You can be specific and have them separate each testicle, or have them coil a rope around their balls so they are pushed away from their body. Or you can leave it open ended and tell him to be creative with the rope or to think of something that would impress you. You can tell your toy to insert a butt plug as part of the preparation. You can even have him bind himself to the bed or a chair - my comments about bed or chair bondage also apply here. Depending on what you have to use, sometimes he will have to leave one arm unlocked, but you can quickly secure that one for him.

Another entertaining option is to pick out a vibrating toy and have my sub tie the toy to himself. I also pair this with instructions to bind himself to the bed. Then when he's ready I turn on the toy and if he can come with the set up he invented, he gets an orgasm. If he can't, his punishment is no orgasm. It's a simple and fun game. If he sucks at it, you can give him a set number of tries. If he turns out to be too good at it, you can pick an awkward shaped toy. I might over use this one, but I've gotten no complaints! You can slowly turn up the vibrator to make it last a little longer, but sometimes I prefer to just set it to max and see what happens (especially with the Hitachi). You can vary what toy he's using to keep things interesting, or add other requirements such as having one attached to each testicle as well.

And let's not forget good old fashioned masturbation. Have your pet masturbate for 20 minutes before you get started. A specific form of masturbation, called edging is also a wonderful tool. To edge, your pet masturbates until he is close to orgasm, and then keeps himself as close as he can without going over. This is error prone and a pet can mess up here, but I think it's still a worthy task. If you're worried about him going over, tell him to bring himself to the edge X number of times with Y number of minutes of rest in between.

You might tell yourself there's no excuse, that you should have planned ahead, but there is any number of valid reasons to go for a quick orgasm. Maybe there was a family emergency, or you had to work late, and there just wasn't enough time left in the day. Maybe it's something as simple as your daughter having a slumber party and what you thought was a nice group of girls is actually a quite unruly group requiring near constant supervision. Rolls eyes. Or maybe you just had a long exhausting day and you can't wait to get to sleep. Whatever the reason, when you're out of time, a quick kink friendly orgasm is usually the best answer. There are quite a bit of quick but kinky things you can do, and even more if you sub has time to "prepare himself for you."