Stranger Humiliation

While I disapprove of most public play with strangers, I'm going to make a post on the topic. I guess the thing that bothers me the most is that it's a quick cheap thrill at the cost of a stranger. Hopefully my post can keep people away from the most tasteless public excursions and leave you with a few more reasonable ideas, should this be something you want to pursue.

But first I wait to say that I've heard people brag about how they forced their sub to dress up a sissy and visit family, or how they brought their sub to a Christmas get together wearing a collar and leash. I don't know how to say this plainly enough: You are directly forcing family into your sex life. You and/or your sub are getting off on this, and these people are unwilling participants. This is equivalent to grabbing your father's hand and forcing him to give your sub a hand job. They are family so they feel obligated to put up with it but it's really not appropriate.

One way to humiliate your sub is to take him to Victoria's Secret and help pick out lingerie for him. You can even wander around until someone offers to help. These people are generally use to men perving around their store so this is only one step further. One could even imagine a truly transgendered man being interested in such things and in this case you're helping to break some of that stigma. The cheaper version of this is to take your sub to visit a Walmart-like store, or a discount clothing store, and pick out some women's clothing for him. Hell, you can even make him try them on in the changing room before buying them. I admit that I'd hate to have a stranger's horny cock rubbed on my clothes, but I always assume the worst and wash new clothes before wearing them.

A more general approach to the shopping angle would be would be to have your sub pick up certain items that suggest an illicit kinky use. Make him get all the items at once and make him go through a cashier; do not let him use the self checkout. You can usually verify this on the receipt, but you can go with him and then send him off to check out and watch from a distance. Super Walmarts and Super Whatever-Big-Stores are great because they let you pair more embarrassing items, such as a cucumber and some lube. Not all food stores will have lube though, so you can go with baby oil which is pretty much just as guilty looking. If they don't have cucumbers or you think that's overdone you can have him get a single banana or large carrot. If it's a drug store you can have him get some tampons with his lube instead, and you can throw in an enema kit while you're at it. Other things you can add to the list are a box of tissues, Nair "bikini cream" hair remover, adult diapers, and a men's fitness magazine. I'm sure there are other things you can think of as well. I prefer to select two or three very specific items to hint at a particular action. To finish things off you can even make your sub use said items in such a manner, so what the cashier was thinking, was right.

But your sissy is all dressed up and you want him to experience the world! Well then, how should you go about this? One thing people tend to overlook are BDSM clubs. They are great for this. People at such clubs understand what's going on and are much more likely to make lewd comments than the general public. If you don't feel your sub gets enough attention try putting a note on him asking people to grab his ass or fondle him, etc. You can really go all out in such a setting. Another good place to go is a gay bar. Most allow straight visitors or couples, but you might want to call ahead to make sure. This is also a great way to get embarrassing comments as people who have had a couple of drinks are tend to be more lose tongued. If you absolutely must parade your sissified sub around out in public to unsuspecting strangers, please choose an appropriate part of town. Most cities and towns tend to have certain areas that are more seedy and less likely to have a mothers taking their kids out for a walk and that sort of thing. I also suggest avoiding schools, toy stores, etc. Your goal should be the embarrassment of your sub, not the disgust or anger of strangers.